Secrets always change the atmosphere of a relationship. Friends or lovers become silent. They lean back or forward in their seats. They turn their heads downward. Some people fiddle with the edges of the table or what they hold at the moment. Secrets are a good place to discover one's true self. It also reveals the health of one's relationship with the other. Mysteries and secrets almost always relate, as a metaphor, to your values. Often, truth is revealed even in the ordinary workings of a day or a moment of time.