Who am I? Big question. Your answer to that determines what or how you'd think, feel, and behave towards events or circumstances in your life. Each of us has a "Who am I" Inventory List, a collection of people, memories, things, experiences, possessions, status, accomplishments etc. that tend to define who we are. Unfortunately, a lot of us don't examine the list. Most of our hurts, traumas, maladjustments, and other problems can be traced to this unexamined list that defines or determines "Who am I."