While in the midst of deep hurts, it may be hard for you to believe that grief does come to an end. It's not a never-ending, indefinite process. You need time to process, resolve, and accept the reality of your losses. You need time to refocus your energies from the pain of the past to the rebirth of the present. You need time to integrate things for the promise of your future. After all these, eventually, your stabs will become little scratches. You will feel better soon!