Sooner is better than later ... when it comes to seeking help.
Typically, people don't go to the hospital for med check up until it's too late. Lots die of serious diseases as a result of this. Even before the condition worsens, we're advised to seek help as early as possible. For instance, if your marriage is in an ICU or "cancerous," disconnect condition, you don't simply take supplements. It can't do the job. You go to the doctor or hospital for professional, clinical intervention to heal the terminal disease in your marriage. Remember, sooner is always better than later when it comes to seeking help.