Sunday, November 18, 2012
Recovering Your True Self
If you are a victim with unhealed abandonment trauma, the only relationship you know anything about is with your abuser or persecutor. You only have this one relationship. Once enmeshed or fantasy bonded, you lose your true self and you repeat the enslaving relationship over and over again in your life.
Where is the way out of this? It is through legitimate suffering that original pain/inner child healing/grief work demands. To do this, you have to give up the false self and finally leave home. That is a therapeutic way to recover your true self.