Let's Walk In The Woods
Whatever you're going through - listen to the trees! Sitting there licking your wounds will only leave a bitter aftertaste.
Of course, tears are welcome. As well as sighs and thoughts of giving up. They're understandable. But you'll discover it needs only for a time.
Heartaches, you see, are fleeting. They don't last. Unless you obsess over them or get stuck. It's inexcusable for the future.
I agree with Longfellow:
"Tell me not, in mournful numbers,
Life is but an empty dream!
Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime,
And departing, leave behind us
Footprints on the sands of time."
Let's get on with it! While there is time ... life is short.