Porn Secret, Real Love

A writer from a TV station once saw me. He’s addicted to pornography. His habitual porn use caused him a variety of sexual difficulties with his wife.

He said, “I’ve been masturbating while watching porn for years that when I’m with my loving wife, I’m unable to naturally share sex with her.”

Eventually, his wife found out about his porn secret. She’s so devastated that she left the house. This led him to seek help.

Porn is a psychological problem that now affects millions of people around the world.

Clinical work with porn users shows varied evidences of sexual problems and mental dysfunction from using porn.

Author and sex therapist Dr. Ian Kerner artfully writes about and prescribes a book titled “The Porn Trap:”

“Porn is like junk food - it provides little in the way of real nutrition for your sexual health. If you or your partner are suffering as a result of consuming these empty calories, this important and timely book shows you how to push away from porn and start experiencing the genuine nourishment of real love.”

Real love, being nourished by it, is the clear path away from problematic porn use. It heals the essence of the negative impact of porn on one’s self, intimacy, and others.