Accept Problem, Own Solution
I make a mistake. Other people make mistakes. It’s all because we are all human.
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We are not perfect. We are not all powerful. We cannot control the universe.
Two things we need to accept or we break down: imperfection and impermanence.
Few of us are in accord with these facts of life.
Once, I had a financial catastrophe, among many. Almost half a million in my bank account was wasted away in a fraudulent scheme.
I made a bad investment decision. It left me suffering financially, big time.
Another mistake I made was, for a time, I got stuck in blaming rather than accepting what happened as part of my life.
Instead of acting and taking responsibility for a solution, I found my self unnecessarily extending my misery.
As soon as I was able to accept the problem and own the solution by acting as CEO over my financial recovery, I started feeling better about my self.
I began living in the moment rather than dwelling on the past or dreaming of the future.
I mentally, spiritually, and practically take charge instead of waiting for things to be done to me.
As writer Lydia Child puts it,
“Misfortune is never mournful to the soul that accepts it; for such always do see that every cloud is an Angel’s face.”
Yes, good can come out of the worst personal catastrophes, if we make the right choice: accept problem, own solution.
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